Xuanie does not know yet that his first name is Oscar. Ask him “what’s your name?” and he replies, “I Xuanie” or “Wo Shi Xuanie” in Chinese. He says Papa is “bear” and Mama’s name is “Oscar.” We have tried a few times to say he is also Oscar, but he seems to think Oscar is the 3rd person in the family, and since he does not quite get my name yet, assumes that Mama must be Oscar.