Archive for September, 2009

Nursery School

September 21, 2009

Xuanie is enrolled in a private nursery school about 8 min drive from where we live. Twice a week, 2.5 hours each.

He simply loves it. They have a big indoor play-area with a lot of trucks and bikes that the kids can ride and peddle. That’s Xuanie’s favorite station for the morning’s free-play session. Every morning, he wakes up and asks if we’re going to school that day.

The teachers told me he does not cry, unlike many other kids, most of whom are older than him (since he is not 3 yet, and does not quite meet the age requirement of most nursery schools). I guess the daycare episode has trained him well. He knows Mama will come back for him.

I was told he’s very quiet and would simply observe, never actively participating. Knowing him, when he’s quiet and observing, I know he’s enjoying himself, and taking in things and processing them. Of course, he tells me a thing or two when he comes home, e.g. asking me to sing the songs he learnt at school. I gotta go ask the teachers what songs they sing, since X.’s singing is not quite intelligible to me yet, neither the lyrics nor the melodies.

The Most Beautiful Blessing in Life

September 21, 2009

May Xuanie grow to appreciate and understand the most precious gift he can ever ever ask for in this lifetime: Knowing God and be saved by the Lord Jesus and have Him as Lord all through this life.

Song by “Stream of Praise” 讚美之泉

這一生最美的祝福

在無數的黑夜裡 我用星星畫出你

你的恩典如晨星 讓我真實的見到你

在我的歌聲裡 我用音符讚美你

你的美好 是我今生頌揚的

這一生最美的祝福 就是能認識主耶穌

這一生最美的祝福 就是能信靠主耶穌

走在高山深谷 祂會伴我同行

我知道這是最美的祝福

Comment on my post

September 13, 2009

Sometime back, I posted a note about the death of a child at daycare when a teacher assistant lost her temper and hurled him to the ground. I received a comment from someone who happen to read that entry, probably by googling “daycare” (?).  She commented that  she “cannot stand” reading such stuff because she is not an “angry person.”

I believe that you need to feel emotions if you want to ever effect any justice or improvements, in anything. Being angry does not mean you go out and beat up people. Journalists write about many a suffering in worlds we do not know about except through reading because they feel for what they know and see. Readers can then get themselves into action and be involved if possible.

Just because one does not write about sad happenings does not mean those things don’t exist. And, people who write about unfortunate events are not necessarily bitter people who do not know how to appreciate good things in life.

Good things, such as great teachers at a great pre-school … Xuanie started pre-school 3 days ago. It was a great first day for him. More will be reported, I believe. Positive things, just so people who chance upon *my* blog will not need to “run a mile” to get unhappy pictures out of their heads.

BTW, I reflect upon my failures to be a better mom everyday. Still, I thank God that Xuanie is a very happy child. He goes places/countries with me/husband. He’s not cooped up at home everyday being told that this world is a sad sad world.

Everyone who’s met him expressed how happy and healthy emotionally he is.  That’s what I want him to be, happy. I try, I will do my best. But, I am not someone who can always pretend that we live in utopia. I’m someone who sees unhappy things, but always move on to try to make positive things out of them.

If you do not know me, please do not jump to conclusions about me just from one post.

Long Absence from Blog

September 5, 2009

Have been really not up to it to do anything the past month, and even these days. Will try to update things about Xuanie whenever I can.

Migraines etc ….

Crust of bread

September 5, 2009

Xuanie has just started to accept toast with peanut butter. I would cut off the crust for him and the rest of the hour or more, I would be coaxing him to chew and swallow his food (as with most other food I offer). It’s easy if he agrees to eat bread for breakfast, so I don’t have to cook rice or noodles for him.

For some reason, I always think of a scene in the movie “Closer” when I cut the crust off the bread for him:

Natalie Portman character: Who cut off your crust?

Jude Law character: Me.

NP: Did your mother cut off your crust when you were a little boy?

JL: Yes, I believe she did.

NP: You should eat your crust.